Officially, it’s…

I've spent my career inside one question: why do some women walk into a room and change it, while others spend years doing everything right and still get passed over, talked over, and quietly pushed out of the rooms they belong in?

That question took me through a PhD in organizational psychology, a decade-plus in academia researching leadership, cognition, and the barriers that keep women from the rooms they're trying to change. I've published more research on this than most people will ever read — and I mean that as a fact, not a brag. I've taught it to business school students, consulted on it with organizations from the NHS to Cedars Sinai, and watched the same gap show up everywhere: the science that actually changes how people lead almost never reaches the women who need it most.

So I stopped waiting for it to trickle down and started building something instead.

Painted Wolves: A New Model of Leadership from Powerful Women was the first thing. The Den and the Painted Wolf Academy were the next. And this whole pack of changemakers making the world better, one room at a time, is where it's all going.

Organizational psychologist. Business school professor. Researcher. Author. Your brilliant bestie with a PhD who actually knows her sh*t who is done watching brilliant women figure this out alone.

Dr. Kelsey Medeiros

But you can call me Kels

It’s time for change.

For a hundred years we've been taught that leadership looks like a lion: loud, solo, dominant, the biggest one in the room who takes the kill and shares it with no one.

It's a terrible model.

It fails most of the people who try it, and it locks out everyone who doesn't fit the picture. But there's a better one, and it's been in front of us the whole time.

Painted wolves are some of the most effective hunters in Africa. Together they move as a pack, share the win, and look out for their own, and that changes everything. That's the leadership I research, teach, and believe in. And it's the kind the world is starving for.

Kelsey’s Background

Kelsey Medeiros, PhD

was born in California in the year of our Queen Taylor Swift (1989 for the non-Swifties) and has been living her best Millennial life ever since.

Growing up, Kelsey wanted to be a dancer and then an actress. Until the day she watched “The Wedding Planner.” She then changed her dream to being Mary Fiore and one day picking out the brown M&Ms with Matthew McConaughey.

Pictured: Kelsey poolside in Hawaii

Kelsey eventually chose a different path earning her Bachelor’s Degree at Penn State University where she majored in psychology and football game attendance with a minor in business.

It was at Penn State University where she joined the Leadership and Innovation Lab under the direction of Dr. Sam Hunter and was introduced to the science of creativity and leadership.

Pictured: Kelsey at yet another OU football game

In 2011, she began her PhD studies at the University of Oklahoma’s (OU) Industrial and Organizational (IO) psychology graduate program.

It was at OU that Kelsey continued her studies in creativity, leadership, and football game attendance. It was also at OU that she began to learn about our “male-default thinking” in leadership research and practice and how the dominant views of leadership fail leaders and can create exclusive (rather than inclusive) spaces.

After graduating from OU with her PhD in 2016, Kelsey worked at the University of Texas at Arlington as an Assistant Professor of Psychology before moving to the University of Nebraska at Omaha (UNO) where she was promoted to Associate Professor and earned tenure in 2022.

Pictured: celebrating the day I earned tenure with my colleagues and friends

Throughout her undergraduate and graduate studies, Kelsey worked with multiple organizations on issues related to people at work including NBC Universal and Hogan Assessment Systems.

The day I earned tenure!

Outside of work, Kelsey’s hobbies include traveling, wine, cooking, spending time with family and friends, going to the theatre, learning to snowboard, reading, running, drinking iced lattes year-round, eating multiple course meals, photography, and long walks along the Thames and through Stanley Park.

Kelsey now splits her time between London and Vancouver, working remotely for UNO and partnering with international clients and speaking on issues related to creativity, diversity, and leadership.